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Can fat people ever be full?

Appetite, what an annoying thing. You’re satisfied for a bit, and there it all goes again. Emptied out. The most obvious thing that comes…

May 19, 2024

Can fat people ever be full?

May 19, 2024

The Fringe is Mainstream but what about those of us always on the outskirts?

Understanding the fringes from the outside in.

Jan 22, 2024

The Fringe is Mainstream but what about those of us always on the outskirts?

Jan 22, 2024

God and Victimization: the shields people don’t want you to take from them

If you’ve seen Oh My God (the first one) — there’s a scene where Mithun’s character says that “agar tum logon se unka bhagwan cheenoge…

Dec 24, 2023

God and Victimization: the shields people don’t want you to take from them

Dec 24, 2023

Red/green flags and the colonization of relationships

Most relationship conversations on the internet tend to have two major themes — boundaries and red/green flags. Whether this idea of…

Aug 13, 2023

Red/green flags and the colonization of relationships

Aug 13, 2023

An open letter to Psychology/Psychiatry Associations and Bodies in India

On June 18th, I wrote a hopeful blog here on medium, about people choosing love and solidarity over hate. And while I still believe that…

Aug 2, 2023

An open letter to Psychology/Psychiatry Associations and Bodies in India

Aug 2, 2023

The Return of Love and Warmth

Monsoons are late this time around. The climate facts of El Nino aside, it seems like they are also a metaphor for the late yet timely…

Jun 18, 2023

A rose soaked with rain

Jun 18, 2023

Finding myself and freedom in unlikely places: The Romantics, A CHONKY CAT group and Atul Dodiya’s…

I have had a very long journey of trying to be limitless. But what if freedom is actually about glorious limits?

Mar 15, 2023

Finding myself and freedom in unlikely places: The Romantics, A CHONKY CAT group and Atul Dodiya’s…

Mar 15, 2023

Fantasy is important PRECISELY because it is not reality

“What’s the point? That can never be true!” — this is the refrain people use when advising people not to engage in fantasy, or as the…

Nov 25, 2022

Fantasy is important PRECISELY because it is not reality

Nov 25, 2022

Overwatering People

Where did I go wrong when wanting compassion and equality around me?

Jul 17, 2022

Overwatering People

Jul 17, 2022

What if “being in the moment” is also an escape?

I seem to have missed the memo on why being in the present moment is better than being in any other moment. I use Buddhist psychology a…

Dec 16, 2020

What if “being in the moment” is also an escape?

Dec 16, 2020

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Sadaf

Love psychology, economics, art, music, books, poetry, blogs, cooking and select sports.A jack of all trades, perhaps master of none. Psychologist.

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