SadafCan fat people ever be full?Appetite, what an annoying thing. You’re satisfied for a bit, and there it all goes again. Emptied out. The most obvious thing that comes…May 19May 19
SadafThe Fringe is Mainstream but what about those of us always on the outskirts?Understanding the fringes from the outside in. Jan 22Jan 22
SadafGod and Victimization: the shields people don’t want you to take from themIf you’ve seen Oh My God (the first one) — there’s a scene where Mithun’s character says that “agar tum logon se unka bhagwan cheenoge…Dec 24, 20231Dec 24, 20231
SadafRed/green flags and the colonization of relationshipsMost relationship conversations on the internet tend to have two major themes — boundaries and red/green flags. Whether this idea of…Aug 13, 20232Aug 13, 20232
SadafAn open letter to Psychology/Psychiatry Associations and Bodies in IndiaOn June 18th, I wrote a hopeful blog here on medium, about people choosing love and solidarity over hate. And while I still believe that…Aug 2, 2023Aug 2, 2023
SadafThe Return of Love and WarmthMonsoons are late this time around. The climate facts of El Nino aside, it seems like they are also a metaphor for the late yet timely…Jun 18, 2023Jun 18, 2023
SadafFinding myself and freedom in unlikely places: The Romantics, A CHONKY CAT group and Atul Dodiya’s…I have had a very long journey of trying to be limitless. But what if freedom is actually about glorious limits?Mar 15, 20231Mar 15, 20231
SadafFantasy is important PRECISELY because it is not reality“What’s the point? That can never be true!” — this is the refrain people use when advising people not to engage in fantasy, or as the…Nov 25, 2022Nov 25, 2022
SadafOverwatering PeopleWhere did I go wrong when wanting compassion and equality around me?Jul 17, 20221Jul 17, 20221
SadafWhat if “being in the moment” is also an escape?I seem to have missed the memo on why being in the present moment is better than being in any other moment. I use Buddhist psychology a…Dec 16, 2020Dec 16, 2020